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“Why Didn’t You Just Ask?” Underestimating the Discomfort of Help-Seeking

dc.contributor.authorBohns, Vanessa K.
dc.contributor.authorFlynn, Francis J.
dc.date.accessioned2020-11-17T17:13:57Z
dc.date.available2020-11-17T17:13:57Z
dc.date.issued2010-01-01
dc.description.abstractAcross four studies we demonstrate that people in a position to provide help tend to underestimate the role that embarrassment plays in decisions about whether or not to ask for help. As a result, potential helpers may overestimate the likelihood that people will ask for help (Studies 1 and 2). Further, helpers may be less inclined to allocate resources to underutilized support programs than help-seekers because they are less likely to attribute low levels of use to help-seekers’ concerns with embarrassment (Study 3). Finally, helpers may misjudge the most effective means of encouraging help-seeking behavior - emphasizing the practical benefits of asking for help, rather than attempting to assuage help-seekers’ feelings of discomfort (Study 4).
dc.description.legacydownloadsBohns13_Why_didnt_you_just_ask.pdf: 732 downloads, before Oct. 1, 2020.
dc.identifier.other8529053
dc.identifier.urihttps://hdl.handle.net/1813/74811
dc.language.isoen_US
dc.relation.doihttps://doi.org/10.1016/j.jesp.2009.12.015
dc.rightsRequired Publisher Statement: © Elsevier. Final version published as: Bohns, V. K., & Flynn, F. J. (2010). ‘‘Why didn’t you just ask?” Underestimating the discomfort of help-seeking. Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, 46(2), 402-409. doi:10.1016/j.jesp.2009.12.015 Reprinted with permission. All rights reserved.
dc.subjecthelp-seeking
dc.subjectprosocial behavior
dc.subjectegocentrism
dc.subjectperspective-taking
dc.subjectaltruism
dc.title“Why Didn’t You Just Ask?” Underestimating the Discomfort of Help-Seeking
dc.typearticle
local.authorAffiliationBohns, Vanessa K.: vkb2@cornell.edu Cornell University
local.authorAffiliationFlynn, Francis J.: Stanford University

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